Donor #1213**Summit
22 years old, CaliforniaStats - IN-CYCLE
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Medical History
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Have you suffered from any serious illness, disabilities or health challenges?
No
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Are there any serious illnesses in your family?
Not really, my dad had heart surgery. He had premature coronary artery disease which caused a blockage that required the bypass surgery. He initially went to the doctor because his shoulder was bothering him then found out! His cholesterol levels and other health markers have been stellar his whole life. It's because he is high in lipoprotein B, as am I (found out after I decided to test to find out myself). So he technically had High ApoB-related CAD. He recovered extremely quickly and well post surgery though and is thriving now!
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Is there any history of mental illness in your family? Have you been diagnosed with depression, ADHD, or ADD?
I have been diagnosed with mild anxiety/ depression but manage it very well.
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Is there a history of cancer in your family? Please explain:
My mother has breast cancer, she is at the end of her treatment. She was diagnosed in her mid-50s. No genetic testing. My paternal grandmother had skin and colon cancers.
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What are your smoking and drinking habits?
NONE
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AMH
3.26
Personal
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Why do you want to become an egg donor?
My biggest dream in life is to build a loving family of my own, and I believe that will be one of the most meaningful parts of my life. I love children and truly feel I was born to be a mother, so I deeply understand how important that dream can be for others. If I can help someone else experience the joy of raising a child through something relatively simple for me to do, I feel it’s a gift worth giving.
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Anything special you'd like to tell us about you?
I LOVE animals. My childhood dog bit me twice, and I loved him all the same. And I still can’t help but stop to pet any dog I see on the street!I was a strong swimmer from the start; my friends’ parents used to call me “little fishy”!I love being outdoors. Before I had gymnastics practices every day after school, I’d immediately drop off my backpack inside then go out on my own or with my friends to jump on the trampoline, make “food” out of plants I scavenged in the yard for the neighborhood deer, or swing as high as humanly possible.I’m not a tomboy (maybe it’s an old-fashioned term, but bear with me), though I am definitely a girly girl who can still be “one of the boys.” I love crafts and getting dressed up—which once meant going to town on a Hello Kitty coloring book in a fluffy-dress-princess look, complete with hot pink kitten heels and clip-on jewelry. But I also love streetwear, balling out, dishing “trash talk” (all in good fun), and being loud on the school bus (as long as the driver is a chill guy).I’ve never had a bloody nose! Ever!I love drinking with a straw and am obsessed with any and all strawberry-centric drinks and desserts (an iced strawberry matcha might just be my favorite though). I’ve never been picky about food or activities! Feed me what you like to eat, and let's take on the world together!!I've always been more mature than my age, enjoying connecting on a personal level with adults I admired: teachers, parents, coaches, the airport security guard (seriously)– you name it!I’ve always been emotional — like the first day my mom tried to teach me cursive at home for fun, and I cried out of frustration… But don’t worry — it got better!I oddly enjoy (mild!) turbulence. It’s chaotic, exciting, and somehow comforting! And perhaps most importantly, I’ve always been a giver: cards, letters, baked goods, hugs.
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Other achievements or honors
Honor Student. I've gotten a lot of awards in sports (national competition in gymnastics, All American Gymnastics, full ride scholarship for gymnastics, received awards for my work ethic, etc.). I played piano starting at a young age (invited to selective recitals). I have always enjoyed singing and have a good sense of rhythm and pitch. I am a natural dancer/singer/performer. I've done community service my entire life and have received awards and recognitions for those.
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ACT and SAT SCORE (or the equivalent in your country)
ACT 34
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What is/was your major?
Human Biology
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Are you currently working? If so where and in what capacity?
I currently work as an after-school child mentor, supporting elementary-aged students in safe, fun, and developmentally engaging activities while also helping them navigate social challenges and emotional growth. My favorite part is guiding children through difficult feelings. For example, one student was struggling with tension in her friendship. I listened, asked a few open-ended questions, and helped her develop a plan to address the situation that felt right for her. She followed through entirely on her own, confronted her friend, and they became close again! Seeing her do all of it independently made me incredibly proud. Another student experiences anxiety, partly due to bullying, partly due to having a younger brother with autism, which often leaves her feeling overlooked at home. I’ve been teaching her strategies to remain at peace despite the chaos around her while also encouraging her to advocate for her needs and communicate with those who can support her. These experiences have given me meaningful one-on-one insight into supporting children’s emotional development, preparing me for graduate school in child psychology.
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Who are the most important people in your life?
The most important people in my life are my boyfriend, my best friend since high school, and my best friend since birth, my mom. My boyfriend grounds me with his balance of lightheartedness and depth—whether we’re sharing quiet moments at home or big adventures out and about, we have the best time, and he reminds me that I’m loved exactly as I am while encouraging me to grow to my potential. My best friend has been my constant through life’s ups and downs; her unconditional support, gentle listening, and shared experiences in healthcare and family struggles make our bond unbreakable despite the thousands of miles between us from Cincinnati to the Bay! My mom is my greatest source of comfort and honesty — we can say anything and still feel completely safe, often spending hours just being present together, in person and over FaceTime, which has taught me the true meaning of unconditional love and understanding.
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What are your special talents?
I’m a Division I athlete with a strong background in gymnastics, which has taught me discipline, body awareness, and resilience. I’m also musically talented — I sing and play piano regularly, which brings creativity and emotional expression into my life. Beyond physical and artistic skills, I’m academically driven with a degree from Stanford in Human Biology, reflecting my curiosity and love for learning. And last, but what I actually value most about my talents: I have been told that I have the ability to make people feel truly heard — like they can really open up to me, and we can be real together. I cherish being that rock for others.
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What is the one change you wish to see in the world?
Given my background in child psychology, the change I really wish to see in the world is for children’s mental and emotional wellbeing to be a priority from the very start of life. Every parent should have access to guidance, resources, and encouragement to help them raise kids who feel safe, understood, and loved. The earlier we nurture a child’s emotional health, the brighter their future — and our world! — becomes.
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What would you consider to your greatest strengths?
I would say my greatest strengths are my natural ability to excel in many areas, my empathy, and my energy and enthusiasm. I’m athletic, smart, and creative, and once I commit to learning something, I approach it with precision, attention to detail, and high standards — qualities that help me master it and take pride in doing it well. I’m also deeply empathetic and genuinely care about the people around me, which helps me connect with and support others: a real priority for me! And I bring a lot of energy and passion to what I do, because I truly enjoy pouring myself into the people, projects, and experiences I care about.
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What is your favorite dish to consume?
CHIRASHI!! I love its colors, textures, Japanese origins (I'm super proud of my Japanese heritage!), the fact that we often make it at home, the way each bite is different, it's mild but refreshing flavor — but I also appreciate its name origin: chirashi translates to “scattered” in Japanese, which I find beautiful. It’s a reminder that something labeled in a way that might sound negative can actually be extraordinary, and I’ve always been sensitive to how language and labels shape perception.
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What is something you've accomplished in life that you are most proud of?
It’s hard to pick a single accomplishment because I’ve been so grateful for the opportunities and experiences I’ve earned after years of relentless effort and dedication — whether it was winning national gymnastics competitions after being told I might have to quit due to devastating injuries or even wanting to quit due to abusive gym environments, or getting into an Ivy league college after a lifetime of late nights balancing rigorous academics, physical therapy, and sports psychology… Still, one of my proudest accomplishments is the community I helped cultivate at Camp Kaleidoscope, an organization that hosts a week-long summer and programming throughout the year for children whose parents have or had cancer.
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What is a book you love?
I know it’s a simple read, but I really do love The Giver by Lois Lowry. The way it describes seemingly simple experiences so vividly makes them feel almost tangible, and the story’s central idea — that experiencing life’s lows is what makes the highs so meaningful and helps us to truly connect with others — resonates deeply with me. I always find myself coming back to it, both for its lessons and the way it reminds me to appreciate the full spectrum of life.
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How would other people describe you?
People describe me in many ways depending on their perspective, but a few themes always come through: energy, thoughtfulness, and dedication. My past gymnastics coaches would say I’m a perfectionist and one of the hardest workers they know, disciplined in pursuing my goals through extra conditioning, physical therapy, sports psychology, and nutrition — but also playful, detail-oriented, and an extremely supportive teammate. Teachers often notice my creativity, problem-solving skills, and willingness to communicate openly, whether it’s asking questions, proposing unique projects, or figuring out solutions when something isn’t working.Family and friends describe me as reliable, affectionate, and endlessly giving. My best friend calls me her “personal therapist” after evenings like one we just had while cooking together: I was singing around the kitchen, finishing up the meal we started together, when I invited her to eat. When she came, I noticed she was struggling despite trying to hide it. We ended up postponing our meal and talking for hours, me holding her and listening and just being there as she cried and shook. My sister has called me “Camp Counselor” since before I even actually became a camp counselor, because of my optimism, playfulness, and responsibility.I also have a quirky, spontaneous side: I remember national holidays and love asking friends — and even strangers — my “question of the day” inspired by each one, just to brighten someone’s moment. People notice my joy for life, my generosity, and my capacity to help others have fun, feel loved, and be their best selves. Altogether, I think people would say I’m disciplined yet playful, thoughtful yet lively, driven yet endlessly loving, and someone who always shows up for those around me.
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Describe your own personality to us
I’d describe my personality similarly to how others describe me but with some surprises in there. I'd say I am a mix of bubbly and thoughtful. I love connecting with exploring, being playful, and bringing joy to those around me, BUT I can also be quiet, reflective, and hard on myself at times. I tend to prefer days out in nature then nights at home, having a consistent routine, and keeping a low-key lifestyle. I have a lot of fun and make it a priority to support my people, but I’m also disciplined and goal-oriented. These latter behaviors that are more introverted and type A aren't what some expect given my sociable, energetic side but they're all me, and I cherish and learn to optimize it all.
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Books you are currently reading
I usually try not to read multiple books at once because it overwhelms me, but if they’re in different genres, I make exceptions. Right now, I’m juggling: Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat by Samin Nosrat -- I’m trying to perfect my basics and become more comfortable and intentional with experimentation in the kitchen, and this book has been amazing for breaking down the fundamentals of flavor in a way that's practical and approachable. Book Lovers by Emily Henry -- A friend lent this to me, and it’s just a fun, easy read. I love curling up with a story that’s lighthearted but still makes you feel. It’s the perfect mental escape. The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk -- This one’s a more serious and formal read, diving into child and adolescent psychology and trauma. I'm reading it 1.) out of genuine curiosity around how trauma manifests in the body (it's the human biology/future psychologist in me), and 2.) to prepare myself to notice and support children who’ve been through tough experiences as I soon begin working with them in the therapy setting.
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Who are you closest to in your family and why?
I’m closest to my mom, and I always have been. She’s like my best friend! We share everything, and I can often guess what she’s thinking before she even says it. She keeps things real with me (famous quote within the family: “I may judge, but you know I judge with love!”. I shake my head and roll my eyes with a smile every time.) and has taught me so much. When we’re home together (never long enough!), we rarely go anywhere without each other because we enjoy the same activities, but we REALLY never go grocery shopping unless we are side by side: checking out every item, reading nutrition facts, planning meals, choosing the best produce (Yes, we're *those* shoppers, spending far too long drumming on all of the melons — sorry!!), discovering new snacks to try as soon as we get home. We cook and bake together, play and snuggle with our dogs, watch TV, and even enjoy hot tubbing like a mini onsen tradition. When we’re apart, we call every day, talking about whatever made us laugh, frustrated, or emotional that day, and sharing our personal lives, our partners, friends, coworkers, dreams, aspirations, and doubts. Yet I still miss her all the time… Love you, mom!
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What was the defining moment that made you choose your field of study/career path?
The defining moment that made me choose my career path happened in high school, during a community-building and mentorship program where I worked with a homeroom of freshmen. One student, a Black boy in my class, never spoke—not a word. I tried group conversations, one-on-one chats, and various activities, but nothing worked. After speaking with the head of the program (our school psychologist) to gather more information, I learned he was selectively mute and had a challenging home life.With this knowledge, I got creative in how I engaged him. I began writing with him to communicate, doing parallel play (simply sitting beside him during class activities or videos and being okay with the silence), and gently pulling him aside for short conversations. Over time, he began to open up, eventually having small but meaningful conversations with me. Being there for him, even in a very simple way, was incredibly fulfilling. The experience highlighted for me how much I enjoy creative problem-solving, building one-on-one relationships, collaborating with others, and understanding the origins of behavioral and emotional challenges. That moment solidified my desire to pursue a career supporting children’s mental health and development.
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If you could tell the intended parents who are considering you one thing, what would it be?
If I could tell intended parents one thing, it would be… to pause. Slow down for a moment and take a real. deep breath…I can only imagine how overwhelming and scary this decision can feel. But you’re doing it, and you’re doing great. It’s a big choice, so be gentle with yourself when it feels hard, and know that you are not alone in it. If it’s at all helpful to talk further, I’m here to answer any questions — over the phone or even in person. You want this, and I’m here to help make it possible. I understand how precious bringing a child into your life is, and while I can’t wait until the time is right for me to have my own, I am so grateful I can support your journey and just know that it will be so worth it. Good luck — you can do this!
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Places you'd love to travel
I’d love to explore Portugal’s rugged coastline for its surf and charm, hike through the breathtaking landscapes of New Zealand, and experience the serene beauty of the Maldives. Colombia’s vibrant culture and lush mountains call to my love of adventure and exploration, and I’d also be excited to practice my Spanish while immersing myself in everyday life there. Most meaningfully, I hope to visit Taiwan to connect with my boyfriend’s culture and heritage while exploring its stunning natural scenery.
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What are your favorite words to live by?
“Progress over perfection”. It reminds me that growth matters more a ~*flawless outcome*~, and that small steps forward often lead to the biggest changes. As someone who has struggled with perfectionism, it grounds me in patience, self-compassion, and the belief that effort and progress are what truly count. It especially helps me to take that first step in a new, potentially overwhelming journey.
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Sports/Dance/Hobbies you enjoy
I was a lifelong gymnast, and I loved both the feeling of moving through skills and the satisfaction of making progress over time. Though I’ve stepped away from competing, I still follow the Stanford gymnastics team closely and feel proud to stay connected to that part of my life. These days, I’ve found joy in new kinds of movement, from surfing and pickleball to dance in many forms (contemporary, hip hop, line dancing, Zumba). I love being outdoors whenever I can -- running, hiking, paddle boarding, and kayaking are some of my favorite ways to recharge and feel grounded. Beyond sports, I’m passionate about many creative and playful outlets: singing, playing piano, cooking, baking, and exploring new restaurants or thrift stores with my boyfriend and friends. Even something as simple as playing with my golden doodle, Hudson, or diving into a good book brings me so much joy. Across all of these hobbies, there’s a common theme for me: I love learning, connecting with others, and finding beauty and fun in both big adventures and everyday moments.
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Where do you see yourself in ten years?
In ten years, I will wake up in a cozy home with my husband and our young children, starting the morning off with a stretch and surf or morning run followed by a homemade breakfast at the kitchen table and little feet running around alongside my *fur* baby. I will spend my days working as a child psychologist, supporting families and helping kids thrive, then come home to debrief the day, cook dinner, play outside, and read bedtime stories with my own children! Every few months, I will dedicate time to pro bono work, making sure that even outside of my career I am giving back to my community. On holidays, I will gather with extended family, sharing meals, laughter, and traditions that root my children in love and connection. Once a year, I will take a surfing trip, feeling the saltwater on my skin and sharing the joy of catching waves with my family, and I will also travel somewhere new with my husband, continuing to explore and immerse myself in different cultures and bond with him 1-on-1. My life will be full of love, purpose, and adventure, woven together in the everyday rhythms of family, work, and discovery.
